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Showing posts with label personal. Show all posts

Sunday, September 4, 2011

US OPEN 2011: DAY 6 Recap (What I Saw)

Italian tennis player Fabio Fognini, practicing shirtless on
the outer courts (photo credit: Ron Buckmire)
So, yes I was at the US Open yesterday. I had a grounds pass, so I was just walking around when I saw this incredibly hot guy, hitting balls, shirtless. Who did it turn out to be? None other than Italian stallion Fabio Fognini, who we last saw withdrawing from a quarterfinal match with Novak Djokovic at this year's french Open (and some say giving the Serbian 5 days off so that he then lost his first match of the year to Roger Federer).

Anyway, it was way out on Court 10 with some unknown female junior practicing with her coach on Court 9 next door. Fabio was hitting balls with his coach and playing some points with his doubles partner, Simone Bolelli (who is also gorgeous, but sadly was not shirtless). I was literally less than 10 feet from the players. The above picture was taken seconds before Fognini threw his racket into his bag and complained to his coach about his playing. There was quite a crowd around but almost nobody knew who the players were, except that they were speaking Italian. I recognized Fognini immediately and later figured out it was Bolelli he was hitting with. Leaving the court dazed, I literally walked into 80-year-old(?) Nick Bolleteri (watch where ya going, kid!) as he dashed off to another press interview I guess.

Oh, yeah what about the tennis?

I don't have more money than sense, so I didn't see the Serena Williams - Victoria Azarenka match in Ashe stadium, but you could literally hear it all over the grounds. Ashe is so big so that unless you are willing to spend 3 figures, you are better off watching the match on television. Bizarrely, the big screens around the grounds were mostly showing Mardy Fish's blase' dismissal of South African beanstalk Kevin Anderson in 3 sets. There was a huge line to get into Grand Stand to see the 3rd round match between Juan Monaco and Tommy Haas. Why, you ask? Because next on that court was Fernando Verdasco playing Jo-Wilfried Tsonga and there are no assigned seats. First come, first served! About 5 thousand people sat patiently through Haas hitting some 71 unforced errors to lose to Roger Federer's next victim in order to experience the magic of Tsonga-Verdasco. Sadly, we didn't get to witness repeat magic of last year's incredible Verdasco-Ferrer match (with one of the greatest match points of all time). This time, Tsonga was just too good for 'Nando on the day. The Frenchman was routinely hitting serves into the 130s at will and showing incredible defensive skills. Still even with a scoreline of 6-3 7-5 6-4 it was two hours that were well worth the price of admission. I was in the 2nd courtside row, close enough to Tsonga I could see what color underwear he was wearing (brightly colored boxers). It was quite a treat to see two once and future Top 10 player in such a small stadium. I know there's a lot of hype about Mardy, but I suspect there's going to be another Federer-Tsonga grand slam quarterfinal. Surely he can't beat the Swiss great three times in a row?

Monday, June 27, 2011

Today is National HIV Testing Day: 30 Reasons To Get Tested


Today, June 27th, is National HIV Testing Day. 2011 is also the 30th year of the AIDS epidemic, which was first identified in Los Angeles.

The Los Angeles County Department of Health has distributed "30 Years. 30 Reasons To Get Tested" on a website called EraseDoubt



1.      I didn’t use a condom.
2.      I thought we were monogamous, but I was wrong.
3.      My boyfriend and I want to share our results with each other.
4.      If I know my status, I can move on with my life.
5.      I know what I did last summer. I just don’t remember who.
6.      I’ve had an STD and I’m more vulnerable to contracting HIV.
7.      I want to have kids and need to know how to protect my baby.
8.      I respect myself. I respect my partner.
9.      I’d be lying if I told you that I normally don’t hook up.
10.  I shared needles back in my party days.   
11.  I’ve had multiple sex partners.
12.  I thought he would be more than a one night stand, but he wasn’t.
13.  I can no longer use my fear of needles as an excuse not to get tested because there are needle free options now. 
14.  We should have talked about it and not just assumed we were both HIV negative.
15.  Just because.
16.  My husband had an affair and I just need to be sure.
17.  My blood pressure, cholesterol, weight, and diet aren’t the only things I should be worried about.
18.  It would bother me if I gave someone HIV.
19.  I don’t remember his name and who knows what else I don’t know about him.
20.  He said the condom wasn’t big enough and I believed him, so we didn’t use it.
21.  I shared needles getting my tattoos and piercings.
22.  I’m out, proud and sexually active.
23.  In about 20 minutes or so, I can finally stop worrying and just know.
24.  One thing led to another and another…
25.  I love him enough to know my status.
26.  He said using a condom would ruin the mood.
27.  It’s been 6 months since my last test, so it’s time.
28.  Too many margaritas, a few more tequila shots, sneaking out of the club with what’s his name, and a night I don’t really remember.
29.  My boyfriend said he would get one too.
30.  Whatever the HIV test result, I know that I’ll be okay.

Get Tested. Know Your Status. Erase Doubt!

Tuesday, June 21, 2011

Word of the Day: LAODICEAN

Today's word of the day is one of my favorites, since it describes my agnostic attitude towards the existence of "God."

laodicean

PRONUNCIATION:
(lay-ah-duh-SEE-uhn)
MEANING:
adjective: Lukewarm or indifferent, especially regarding religion.

ETYMOLOGY:
After Laodicea, a city in Asia Minor, whose Christians were rebuked for their indifference to religion in Revelation 3:16 in the New Testament. Earliest documented use: 1633.

USAGE:
"How can we expect such vital realism from our pathologically Laodicean political class?"
Kevin Myers; An Irishman's Diary; Irish Times (Dublin); Jul 19, 2005.
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